Couples
EMOTIONAL HOME IMPROVEMENT
Does your relationship feel bumpy and prone to reversals?
Do you believe something has been lost on the way?
Have you two grown apart?
Have you been thinking of ending it or are you worried that your partner is going to end it soon?
You have tried it all…
Neglected? Confused? Frustrated? Disappointed? Exhausted?
Don’t give up just yet. Here’s what we can do:
Our relationships, our marriages too often resemble a desert of anguish more than an oasis of happiness. As we engage in life together, the initial attraction dissipates, power struggle endures, differences seem insurmountable and indifference builds over time.
You have confided with your friends. You have tried counseling, or therapy. You have read heartening books. You have participated in seminars. All for nothing. The baggage is just too heavy…
…. …. ….
But that’s exactly where I come in.
While traditional couples counseling/marriage counseling focus on solving problems, my coaching focuses on you and on helping you to develop new healthy habits and skills. After working with me, you will re-energize yourself through positive actions instead of wasting your time and energy on repeated arguments, fights and squabbles.
Daily routine may have sown the seeds of the current crisis. Not everyone realizes that in order enjoy a lasting partnership you need to learn how to use the right tools to stay close and proactively sustain mutual feelings.
At the moment you do not quite know how to achieve this, do you? After all, you have been trying to make your relationship better, haven’t you? If it has not worked, you may need to learn to do something different.
Remember that things can and do change — Incredible as it may seem, it does not really matter if your partner does or does not cooperate at the moment; you can still do something about it. Your action alone is enough to affect the change. Why? Because the steps we will devise for you will prove contagious. As a result of your action the two of you WILL come closer together again.
SO, WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT?
Your problems have built up over some time and there is no miracle about it: it does take some work to fix them. Here are a few of the OUTCOMES you can expect if you and I make a plan for your future. Using the toolkit to fix your relationship, you will learn how to:
- BRACE – Evolve from ‘Me’ to ‘We’
- CUT – Notice the destructive behavior patterns. Change them
- DRILL – Develop daily actions that will restore intimacy/trust
- CHISEL – Learn to understand your partner’s ‘love language’. Then learn to speak it.
- TILL – Find strategies to solve conflicts in various aspects of daily life – ranging from money, sex, housework and children to work-stress, in-laws and outside commitments.
- STEM – Learn how to best deal with the attraction you may feel for another man/woman.
- SHAPE – End up feeling renewed, reenergized and inspired strongly enough to transform your current relationship into what you have always dreamed about.
Over the next several weeks I will show you some simple, yet powerful, well-tested means to keep love, trust and happiness alive. DO NOT EXPECT A ONE-SIZE FITS ALL “SYSTEM”. The geometry varies. How we apply these various tools will largely depend on where you and your partner are at the moment. But if used in the right order, in tune with the emotional make-up of your relationship, and with a positive feedback mechanism, these tools will help you resolve issues and stay on a positive track.
We will not be taking your relationship to some imaginary, ideal past – because even if it ever existed, it did not protect you. Rather, an entirely new quality will evolve in your life together – a truly rewarding, self-sustaining partnership.
Wouldn’t it be great to feel the deep joy of passion, intimacy and shared purpose with someone you love?
Remember: it is possible to rescue almost every relationship from the brink. You too can have a happy and rewarding partnership. Despite all the problems, you can strengthen your love — but only if you know the right tools.
The mechanics of relationship fixing can be learned. Yes it can. You will be equipped to solve issues and to build mutual understanding, respect, trust and a treasure of positive feelings.
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO DO NOW?
I offer one-on-one coaching service to help couples to deepen their connection and rekindle their passion. To inquire about my coaching package, please use the contact page.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP NEEDS SOME MECHANICAL ASSISTANCE. YOUR FRIENDS AND RELATIVES HAVE MEANT WELL, BUT THEY DO NOT REALLY KNOW HOW TO FIX IT. STOP WASTING YOUR TIME.
I WILL HELP YOU WITH YOUR EMOTIONAL HOME IMPROVEMENT.
